Tips #1
Smile. There is something so charming, and yet disarming about a genuine smile. Chances are she will smile back in return. And if she doesn't ? Who wants to talk to someone that grumpy anyway? This is an important, genuine thing to remember if you want to learn How To Flirt.
Tips #2
Eye Contact. This might be the most important way to flirt. Making eye contact with a girl can speak volumes. The secret, or trick, is to hold her gaze long enough for her to feel your interest, but not so long that it starts to become creepy. Figure out the appropriate length of time and use it to your advantage.
Tips #3
Body Language . Like smiling and making eye contact, the way you move, sit, and stand all convey important messages about yourself. Women flirt by playing with their hair. You can learn how to flirt by how you hold yourself. There is a way to position yourself in relation to a girl that generates sexual attraction and interest. But again, it’s knowing exactly how to do it and for how long. Pick up a book on body language and learn just how your body can speak volumes before you even open your mouth.
Tips #4
Compliment. One tried-and-true method of flirting is to compliment the girl. But there is a trick to this; just like every other tip, I’m sharing. The trick is to not compliment her on something obvious that she has probably heard her entire life, such as the color of her eyes. Instead, only compliment her if you can notice something that is genuinely different about her and something that took some effort on her part.
For instance, you can compliment her on how her scarf matches or brings out her eye color. This is something she worked to do. Unlike complimenting her on the color of her eyes, something she was just born with.
Tips #5
Tease.This works especially well on the most beautiful girls in the room. They are so used to men just falling all over them, that they rarely have a guy who teases them. If you have enough self-confidence to gently tease a girl, she will most likely respond to you in a favorable manner.
This is also a fun way to flirt. It harkens back to elementary school when that is how we boys showed our interest in a girl, we chased her and teased her, made her blush. Women were once those little girls who blushed. They remember.
Just make sure when you tease, it is lighthearted and gentle and not something that could truly heart someone’s feelings.